Permission Granted

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Justin and Joy discuss the unseen impact people have on each other and missing out on opportunities by denying ourselves permission to just be us.

    • Reflecting on Dr. King’s legacy and the level of impact we all leave on the world.
    • Letting go of our ego’s attachment to leaving a legacy in the spotlight.
    • Have you joined the Married Millennials Facebook group or Weekly Wellness community?
    • Repositioning reading as a leisure activity instead of “work” or “punishment”.
    • Granting yourself permission to change despite other people’s opinion or potential disappointment.
    • An important lesson Joy learned from delaying one small action.
    • And much more!

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Right Now

right now

Justin and Joy discuss the importance of finding the power in our own story and accepting the past without blame.

    • Our realization of how young we were when we got engaged and embracing our youth in our 30’s.
    • Joy’s experience at her first tea party and debating if “tea time” is exclusively for women.
    • Joy booked her first mental health and wellness speaking engagement.
    • Recognizing the power of your own story and embracing vulnerability.
    • Our invitation to join the Married Millennials’ Facebook group.
    • The media’s responsibility to engage in solution-based conversations, not just opinionated ones.
    • Learning how to accept the pain of our past to create a better future.
    • And much more!

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Justin and Joy discuss the newfound clarity they received during their two-week hiatus and why they will no longer use the hashtag “Relationship Goals” moving forward.

    • The reason(s) behind their two-week hiatus.
    • The new and improved weekly wellness newsletter.
    • How Justin’s ego negatively influenced the pricing of our premarital coaching course.
    • Justin’s 2019 Word of the Year: Release
    • Joy’s 2019 Word of the Year: Openness
    • How the hashtag “relationship goals” has negatively influenced relationships.
    • And much more!

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Third Wheelin’

third wheelin'

Justin and Joy discuss the importance of maintaining your friendship independence while in a relationship and the downside of realism.

    • The Riley Christmas production is the most insane and unique celebration.
    • Justin’s surprising revelation while forecasting our 2019 household budget.
    • Is it possible to be a realist without being a pessimist?
    • Joy’s frustration and concern with Justin being a heavy sleeper.
    • Being married and hanging out with friends doesn’t mean your significant other is always invited.
    • Justin’s dilemma with managing friendships where he’s the only one opening the line of communication.
    • Justin confessing he doesn’t enjoy talking with Joy on the phone.
    • And much more!

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That Was Unexpected

New York

Justin and Joy discuss the value of life not always happening the way it’s “supposed to” and how political and social polarization isn’t solving problems.

    • Comparing how this year was “supposed to be” vs. how it actually turned out.
    • How Justin’s financial responsibility has worked against him.
    • We need your feedback: What do you like, dislike, want to see more of?
    • Justin finally made his Home Alone dreams come true and Joy’s teenage heart was fulfilled by a Broadway show.
    • Justin’s frustration with society’s political correctness and sensitivity.
    • How social and political polarization has eliminated teachable moments.
    • And much more!

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Swallow Your Pride


Justin and Joy prepare for their upcoming holiday trip to New York and share a powerful lesson about perseverance and understanding.

    • Our first visit to New York during the Christmas season.
    • Joy’s attempt to live a fully vegan lifestyle…Justin isn’t here for it.
    • Celebrating our nephew’s birthday at the LA Auto Show.
    • Are you down to go skydiving with Justin for his 30th birthday?
    • Introducing America’s newest holiday: Wayment Wednesday.
    • How unemployment and a recent TV gig challenged Justin to swallow his pride.
    • And much more!

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