Pajama Jam

pajama jam

Justin and Joy discuss bedtime attire and how their relationship with their parents has evolved throughout adulthood.

  • Our differing opinions about “cute” pajama sets and going to bed “put together”.
  • Justin’s recent visit to Indiana and living a scene straight out of a horror film.
  • The challenge of telling compelling stories without fluff.
  • The beauty of developing a peer relationship with your parents.
  • Should some conversations be off-limits with your parents?
  • And much more!

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Justin and Joy discussing refining all aspects of their life and learning to accept the casualties of growth.

  • Joy’s eventful birthday weekend filled with meditation and gratitude.
  • The transition from living a life of accumulation to a life of refinement.
  • Embracing the freedom to live unapologetically free without the pressures of society.
  • How a first-class ticket finally convinced Joy how much Justin loves her.
  • Learning to accept the casualties of growth.
  • Is it possible to repair a friendship without rekindling it?
  • And much more!

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Master The Approach

master the approach

Justin and Joy suggest a new HR practice all companies should implement and share a few helpful tricks to help men approach women.

  • Childish Gambino dropped another loaded music video just before we say farewell to summer.
  • Joy’s judgment and parenting regarding Justin’s social media usage.
  • It’s Joy’s birthday week! Will the birthday monster come out?
  • HR needs to implement new penalties for employees permeating an aura of negativity.
  • Cracking the code for a functional and stylish wardrobe.
  • Justin shares a few tricks to help men overcome the fear of approaching women.
  • And much more!

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Conversational Cleanse


Justin and Joy discuss society’s diminishing communication skills and why Joy has officially quit social media.

  • Joy’s insistence on having at least two kids following her weekend with her goddaughter.
  • Justin’s frustration with Joy constantly using hyperboles as her default argument.
  • The standard LA conversation consists of two things: work and traffic.
  • Justin’s struggle with finding his speaking style and connecting with his audience beyond just words.
  • Joy’s social media hiatus has commenced.
  • Why do Virgos feel the need to announce “Virgo Season” to the rest of the world?
  • Are you interested in joining the Love Jays team? Hit us up!
  • And much more!

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We All Win


Justin and Joy celebrate their wedding anniversary by sharing three important lessons they’ve learned over the past three years.

  • Celebrating the life and excellence of Aretha Franklin.
  • Our short-lived experiment with choir.
  • Crazy Rich Asians was the breath of fresh air you didn’t know you needed.
  • Joy’s quest to reclaim her six-pack and destroy Justin in the process.
  • Three key lessons we’ve learned in our first three years of marriage.
    • 1. You’re not married until you’re married
    • 2. Don’t sweat the small stuff
    • 3. My money is your money, your money is my money.
  • And much more!

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Illusion Of Choice

illusion of choice

Justin and Joy continue to declutter all areas of their life and share how letting go has brought a renewed sense of purpose and clarity.

  • Our August purge continues – this week: wardrobe.
  • Making way for abundance by letting go of the past.
  • Justin’s decision to stop wearing watches.
  • How our travel fund is helping Justin’s childhood dream come true.
  • Our experience at Noir Unicorn’s panel discussion on monogamy, polyamory, and mental health.
  • The illusion of decision making.
  • Married Millennials is officially on Spotify!
  • Justin’s newfound appreciation for story and entertaining the idea of writing our own script.
  • And much more!

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