Black Women Deserve Better

royal wedding

Justin and Joy recap the Royal Wedding and break down the key takeaways from their singles mixer and panel discussion.

  • Congratulations Harry and Meghan – we got a black princess, y’all!
  • The royal wedding was low key turnt up.
  • We successfully hosted our very first live event – The Mingle!
  • Key takeaways: lack of vulnerability and authenticity, poor approach, too much focus on attraction.
  • How Justin’s focus on wellness increased Joy’s attraction levels.
  • Black women are tired and we as black man MUST do better.
  • And much more!

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Adult ADHD

adult adhd

Justin and Joy discuss how prioritizing wellness has positively impacted their relationship and share their journey with managing ADHD in their marriage.

  • Happy Mother’s Day to all the beautiful moms around the world.
  • It’s time to end the shame associated with napping.
  • Optimizing the corporate work schedule and streamlining productivity.
  • Last call: Grab your ticket(s) to The Mingle before it’s too late.
  • Justin’s learned awareness about the more you try to control, the least control you actually have.
  • Will Smith shares the surprising story on how he became The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.
  • Joy’s journey with ADHD and how we manage it within our marriage.
  • And much more!

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This Is America

this is america

Justin and Joy discuss how DJ Khaled is missing a MAJOR KEY and collect their minds after Donald Glover SHOOK the internet.

  • Our future plans to attend the Kentucky Derby.
  • Justin saying goodbye to alcohol?
  • Single folks in LA…grab your tickets to The Mingle.
  • Turning up on Pillow Talk Live every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST.
  • DJ Khaled’s refusal to eat the box.
  • Donald Glover continues to shake our conscious with “This Is America”.
  • Join our Mother’s Day challenge.
  • And much more!

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Justin and Joy share their views on pornography and the impact it can have on relationships.

  • Justin’s failure to properly prepare when dealing with medical professionals.
  • Joy’s vested interest in fictional universes.
  • Bill Cosby’s verdict and the downfall of our black “heroes”.
  • Janelle Monáe’s Dirty Computer emotion picture and coming out as pansexual.
  • The Mingle – a can’t miss event for singles.
  • Our views on porn and the impact it has on relationships.
  • And much more!

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Watch Your Mouth

watch your mouth

Justin and Joy discuss the power of words and how their love language has evolved over the years.

  • That awkward moment when Justin got low key sassed by Joy’s grandmother.
  • Marrying your partner’s family and what it actually means.
  • Loving from a distance and letting go of loose ends.
  • Kanye West returned to Twitter with a mix of GEMS and foolishness.
  • Join us for Pillow Talk Live every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST.
  • Joy is distributing wealth for FREE. Why haven’t you subscribed yet?
  • Investing in you requires more than just time. Spend the money!
  • Support the community: Donate to the Bungalow Music & Arts Festival.
  • Revisiting our 5 Love Languages.
  • And much more!

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Justin and Joy try to wrap their heads around Beyoncé’s brilliance and discuss the importance of establishing your non-negotiables.

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