Episode 71: (Alt)ernate Reality


Justin and Joy relive partying with Beyoncé and Jay-Z and dissect white fragility following the events in Charlottesville.

  • Partying with Beyoncé and Jay-Z.
  • Uncle duties wore Justin out after three days…smh.
  • Justin’s poor ability to properly take care of himself.
  • Charlottesville, Virginia: A hoodless klan rally.
  • You MUST identify and name behavior in order to change it.
  • The best social commentary on Charlottesville.
  • And much more!

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Episode 70: Nate Howard | Tell Your Story Before They Do

Justin and Joy sit down with Nate Howard to discuss how his experience with the LAPD shaped his career path, becoming a full-time entrepreneur, and influencing education with his non-profit organization. Elevator Pitch Nate’s USC graduation aggressively ending with 79 LAPD officers. Nate’s early introduction to poetry and how it influenced the creation of his […]

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Episode 69: (S)expectations


Justin and Joy discuss sexual compatibility, the negative effects of taboo subjects, and using “female” to describe a woman. Elevator Pitch When watching music videos was the thing to do. Joy’s wisdom teeth removal and HARSH breath. The downside of seeing movies after all the hype. Esther Perel’s series on Audible and view on sexual […]

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Episode 68: Lena Waithe | Hollywood Is Life

Justin and Joy sit down with Lena Waithe to discuss her recent Emmy nomination, relationship with a Hollywood executive, and the importance of having television content reflective of black culture. Elevator Pitch Lena’s recent Emmy nomination for Outstanding Writing in a Comedy Series. The importance of representing black culture in Hollywood. The story behind Lena’s […]

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Episode 67: Cassy Athena | Stay In Your Frame

Cassy Athena

Justin and Joy sit down with Cassy Athena to discuss her incredible journey through photography, overcoming a brain tumor, and the value of developing intimate personal relationships. Elevator Pitch Cassy’s early photography inspirations and love for visual arts. How she developed her signature Cassy Athena watermark. The infamous Nick Young meme. Surviving a brain tumor […]

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Episode 66: Move! Get Out The Way

move out the way

Justin and Joy review their mid-year progress report and discuss life’s biggest obstacle. Elevator Pitch Our mini BSU college reunion. Jay Z’s 4:44 album and Blue Ivey’s freestyle. Our Spider-Man movie meltdown. Our mid-year progress report. Identifying problems vs. creating solutions. A valuable piece of insight from Phil Knight’s, Shoe Dog. Three helpful tricks to […]

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Episode 65: Dating While Broke

dating while broke

Justin and Joy discuss the complicated first date and the art of dating creatively. Elevator Pitch Happy 4th of July! Joy enjoying her weekends without Justin. Coincidence or not? Why showering together isn’t a good idea. A clear breakdown between Justin’s message and tone. Charlamagne Tha God’s book, Black Privilege. Rich people’s ability to name […]

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Episode 63: Like vs. Love

Justin and Joy discuss the differences between liking and loving your partner. Elevator Pitch Father’s Day brunch fail. Amanda Seales serving all the tea to Caitlyn Jenner. Joy’s appearance on the Brown Girls Rising podcast. The unfortunate and not surprising verdict in the Philando Castile’s trial. The difference between liking and loving your significant other. […]

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Episode 62: No Panties, No Problem

Amber Rose

Justin and Joy react to Amber Rose’s viral photo and the importance of body positivity. Elevator Pitch Joy’s experience at the EmpowerHer conference in Chicago. Marvel’s Black Panther movie. Victoria Secret’s failure to style black hair appropriately. Amber Rose amBUSHing the internet. The importance of body positivity and stopping women shaming. The best educational video […]

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