Wings

relationship roles

Justin and Joy discuss spending an extended time away from each other and the challenges of balancing relationship roles without making your partner feel inferior.

  • Does anyone else not enjoy spending money on Halloween costumes?
  • Jada and Will’s Red Table Talk episodes are MUST WATCH TV.
  • Justin’s incredible experience on set of the upcoming TV show, Boomerang.
  • Joy’s fleeting feeling of freedom and frustration upon Justin’s arrival home.
  • Our struggle of balancing each other’s household contribution and responsibilities without making the other person feel inadequate.
  • Can you name an animal that begins with the letter “N’ without using Google?
  • And much more!

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Opposites Attract

Lebron James

Justin and Joy discuss the fear of outgrowing your partner and how to overcome it.

  • The real reason Halloween is one of Joy’s favorite holidays.
  • Justin’s ability to talk his way out of anything and everything.
  • NBA season is officially back and Joy isn’t here for it.
  • The fear of growing tired of your partner and how to overcome it.
  • Growth vs. stagnation – the choice is yours.
  • A valuable resource to use for your next getaway with your partner.
  • And much more!

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Ghostbusters

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Justin and Joy reflect on the power of apology and engage in the most inappropriate game of “would you be more mad if…”

  • Should you honestly respond to the question, “How was your weekend?”
  • Joy’s obsession with life paths, numerology, and zodiac signs.
  • Which is more effective in a relationship: adaptability or flexibility?
  • Learning to maintain a more realistic and effective pace in achieving your goals.
  • Justin’s life-changing experience apologizing to an old friend he hadn’t seen in 15 years.
  • The most inappropriate game of “would you be more made if…”
  • And much more!

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The Myth Of Motivation

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Justin and Joy discuss the importance of trimming the fat and why motivation is overrated.

  • Our quarterly “Come to Jesus” meeting released frustration and inspired optimism.
  • Imagining the simplicity of just being married and silently side-eyeing.
  • R.I.P Pillow Talk Live.
  • Motivation without teaching is useless.
  • The audacity to believe in your crazy ass ideas.
  • Learning how to commit ourselves to the work no one wants to do.
  • And much more!

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Conversational Cleanse

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Justin and Joy discuss society’s diminishing communication skills and why Joy has officially quit social media.

  • Joy’s insistence on having at least two kids following her weekend with her goddaughter.
  • Justin’s frustration with Joy constantly using hyperboles as her default argument.
  • The standard LA conversation consists of two things: work and traffic.
  • Justin’s struggle with finding his speaking style and connecting with his audience beyond just words.
  • Joy’s social media hiatus has commenced.
  • Why do Virgos feel the need to announce “Virgo Season” to the rest of the world?
  • Are you interested in joining the Love Jays team? Hit us up!
  • And much more!

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Zoned Out

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Justin and Joy discuss how identifying each other’s deficiencies don’t always lead to positive outcomes.

  • Special thanks to everyone who attended The Mingle LA.
  • The simple task of writing down your goals can turn thoughts into reality.
  • Atlanta – mark your calendars! We are coming to town Sunday, July 29.
  • Joy’s habit of continually zoning out in the midst of a conversation with Justin.
  • The ongoing battle without conflicting work styles and successfully managing negative emotions.
  • Identifying each other’s weak spots in the pursuit of meeting your partner halfway.
  • How showing up and just being present can make all the difference.
  • And much more!

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