Conversational Cleanse

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Justin and Joy discuss society’s diminishing communication skills and why Joy has officially quit social media.

  • Joy’s insistence on having at least two kids following her weekend with her goddaughter.
  • Justin’s frustration with Joy constantly using hyperboles as her default argument.
  • The standard LA conversation consists of two things: work and traffic.
  • Justin’s struggle with finding his speaking style and connecting with his audience beyond just words.
  • Joy’s social media hiatus has commenced.
  • Why do Virgos feel the need to announce “Virgo Season” to the rest of the world?
  • Are you interested in joining the Love Jays team? Hit us up!
  • And much more!

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Black Women Deserve Better

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Justin and Joy recap the Royal Wedding and break down the key takeaways from their singles mixer and panel discussion.

  • Congratulations Harry and Meghan – we got a black princess, y’all!
  • The royal wedding was low key turnt up.
  • We successfully hosted our very first live event – The Mingle!
  • Key takeaways: lack of vulnerability and authenticity, poor approach, too much focus on attraction.
  • How Justin’s focus on wellness increased Joy’s attraction levels.
  • Black women are tired and we as black man MUST do better.
  • And much more!

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Dating While Broke

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  • Happy 4th of July!
  • Joy enjoying her weekends without Justin. Coincidence or not?
  • Why showering together isn’t a good idea.
  • A clear breakdown between Justin’s message and tone.
  • Charlamagne Tha God’s book, Black Privilege.
  • Rich people’s ability to name their children whatever the hell they want.
  • Misconceptions on how expensive a first date should be.
  • Navigating the dating scene affordably.
  • And much more!

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Daffany Clark | Picking Up The Pieces

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Elevator Pitch

  • Daffany’s unique childhood experience in Chicago and unpacking her biracial identity at an early age.
  • Her journey reconciling with her biological father.
  • How Daffany’s one woman show, Pieces, is helping her heal with the past.
  • The effect growing up without a father has created within her own personal relationships.
  • The downside of overextending too much for friends.
  • Dating in Los Angeles and the visible lack of courting.
  • Loyalty and Respect: Men want it, but don’t give it. Why?
  • Fish Bowl: What stands between you and complete happiness? What would you change if you were never going to die? What big lesson can people learn from your life?
  • And much more!


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Ballin’ On A Budget

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Elevator Pitch

  • Spending too much time at home.
  • Breakfast in Los Angeles.
  • Justin’s dope Uber experience.
  • Our Halloween plans…or lack there of.
  • Joy’s weird obsession with Dr. Pimple Popper.
  • Car Dilemma: Buy or Lease?
  • Student loan fantasies.
  • And much more!

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Brooklyn Bridge #TBT 🏙

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Locker Room Talk

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Elevator Pitch

  • Our trip to New York.
  • LA Culture v. New York Culture.
  • Cafe Fiorello’s lemon tart.
  • Justin’s snacking problems.
  • The time a stranger bought us a Macbook…yes, it really happened.
  • The 2nd Presidential Debate.
  • Donald Trump’s “Locker Room Talk”.
  • Male conversations promoting toxic masculinity and rape culture.
  • And much more!

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Cloudy with a chance of silliness. Thanks for a great time, Hawaii! 🌤🌊😁

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