Third Wheelin’

third wheelin'

Justin and Joy discuss the importance of maintaining your friendship independence while in a relationship and the downside of realism.

    • The Riley Christmas production is the most insane and unique celebration.
    • Justin’s surprising revelation while forecasting our 2019 household budget.
    • Is it possible to be a realist without being a pessimist?
    • Joy’s frustration and concern with Justin being a heavy sleeper.
    • Being married and hanging out with friends doesn’t mean your significant other is always invited.
    • Justin’s dilemma with managing friendships where he’s the only one opening the line of communication.
    • Justin confessing he doesn’t enjoy talking with Joy on the phone.
    • And much more!

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A Timely Debate

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Justin and Joy continue their ongoing debate about compromise, timeliness, and patience.

  • Communal black spaces in Los Angeles.
  • The struggle with finishing the year “strong”.
  • ’Tis the season to give – enter the Love Jays Christmas giveaway.
  • Marriage is compromise…and our struggle continues.
  • Joy’s inability to be on time and Justin’s waning patience.
  • And much more!

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I’ll Be Home For Christmas

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  • One week until Christmas!
  • Justin’s obsession with 90’s R&B and inability to musically read the room.
  • Shopping the weekend before Christmas is always a bad idea.
  • The ONLY time Justin failed on Joy’s Christmas gift.
  • Christmas Day traditions as children.
  • How divorce has impacted the way we spend holidays.
  • Why your Chipotle order reveals your financial attitude.
  • And much more!

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Welcome to Marriage

Marriage

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  • Joy layering our bed with unnecessary blankets.
  • Justin’s best friend is coming home and he’s HYPED.
  • Untimely injuries and Joy’s hypochondria.
  • The best advice our pastor gave us on our wedding day.
  • Our first real marriage “fight”.
  • Justin opening up about not playing overseas.
  • The frustrations associated with losing your emotional outlet.
  • Communicating EXACTLY what is needed in a relationship.
  • Our Aha! moment…9 years later.
  • And much more!

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Disappearing Act

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Elevator Pitch

  • New podcasting equipment.
  • Justin’s poor Christmas shopping habits.
  • How combined finances made Christmas shopping not-so-fun for Joy.
  • Do you like to solve the mystery or be surprised when unwrapping gifts?
  • Justin finally realizing he can run errands on his own.
  • Our neighbor’s tree trimming holiday party.
  • Our home decor struggle.
  • And much more!

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When your attachment issues run DEEP. 👋🏽🚗😢

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Busy Doing Nothin’

Busy

Elevator Pitch

  • Extra Thanksgiving weight.
  • Reminiscing about our basketball and dancing bodies…sigh.
  • Christmas season is officially here!
  • The flip side of living with a tall person.
  • Justin’s growing disdain for people being “busy“.
  • The default response with no substance.
  • Would you have any friends if you had to tell the absolute truth?
  • And much more!

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