Black Women Deserve Better

royal wedding

Justin and Joy recap the Royal Wedding and break down the key takeaways from their singles mixer and panel discussion.

  • Congratulations Harry and Meghan – we got a black princess, y’all!
  • The royal wedding was low key turnt up.
  • We successfully hosted our very first live event – The Mingle!
  • Key takeaways: lack of vulnerability and authenticity, poor approach, too much focus on attraction.
  • How Justin’s focus on wellness increased Joy’s attraction levels.
  • Black women are tired and we as black man MUST do better.
  • And much more!

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F*ck Washing Dishes

Washing Dishes

Justin and Joy share their mixed emotions about March For Our Lives and share how washing dishes revealed an ongoing struggle within their relationship.

  • Justin’s never before seen abdominal development.
  • A brief review of last week’s episode about the struggles of dating.
  • The significance of Tomi Adeyemi’s new book, “Children of Blood and Bone”.
  • The killing of another UNARMED BLACK MALE, Stephon Clark.
  • Our mixed emotions about March For Our Lives.
  • Support Justin’s newest endeavor, Purpose Over Profit™.
  • Conflicting expectations and personality types within marriage and business.
  • Introducing Pillow Talk Thursdays, beginning April 5. Mark your calendars!
  • And much more!

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Dating Should Be Easy

Dating Should Be Easy

Justin and Joy weigh in on the Bruno Mars cultural appropriation debate and discuss the unnecessary complexities associated with dating.

  • March Madness has consumed our household, much to Joy’s dismay. Major shoutout to UMBC.
  • Indulging on DELICIOUS vegan Caribbean food, courtesy of Who’s Hungry Caribbean Catering.
  • Celebrating Justin’s 1-year anniversary without meat.
  • Spending the weekend with Joy’s grandparents.
  • Weighing in on the Bruno Mars cultural appropriation debate.
  • When did dating become this ridiculous and unnecessarily difficult?
  • Neal Walsch’s “Conversations with God” is a must-read.
  • And much more!

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Why We Lie About Sex


Justin and Joy break down why most young men are triflin’ and how to react if your partner expresses their disappointment with your sex game.

  • So…we lied and went HAM on Cyber Monday.
  • Still looking for the perfect gift? Look no further than Justin’s online credit card course!
  • Generational wealth is real…and we ain’t got it.
  • Joy’s mini-golf meltdown and Justin’s horrific batting display.
  • T-Pain broke the internet with this confession.
  • Most men, if not all, have a little triflin’ in them. Justin included.
  • How would you respond if your partner explained they don’t enjoy having sex with you?
  • And much more!

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Teamwork Makes The Dream Work


Justin and Joy discuss who they’re thankful for this holiday season and how teamwork has anchored their relationship and marriage.

  • Our 1st vegan Thanksgiving was a success!
  • The people and experiences we are thankful for this season.
  • How therapy gave Justin the release he didn’t know he needed.
  • Joy’s over-the-top Christmas decorations.
  • Why teamwork is at the center of our marriage.
  • The power of apology.
  • And much more!

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Nathan Cheney | A Fatherless Generation

Nathan Cheney
  • Nathan’s motivation behind his upcoming documentary, A Fatherless Generation.
  • Overcoming his 10-year battle with suicide and depression.
  • How interviewing 100+ people for the film helped him define “fatherless”.
  • Nathan’s biggest lesson he learned about himself throughout this journey.
  • The impact growing up fatherless has had on his dating life.
  • Fish Bowl: Are you holding onto something you need to let go of? How many friends would trust with your life? Is there something you wish you didn’t know?
  • And much more!

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