Episode 54: Sex With My Friend’s Ex

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  • Our non-existent tax return.
  • We joined Blavity!
  • Would you date your friend’s ex-boo?
  • How men and women deal with raw emotions after a breakup.
  • Man’s worst nightmare.
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It’s All About Sex

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Below Average Sex

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Celibacy: Cause and Effect

Q: Dear Love Jays, Mr. J mentioned in one of his answers that the two of you were trying to practice celibacy. I was just wondering how that’s going for you guys as a couple and as individuals how has it impacted your relationship? Good or bad? Is it a good idea for others in […]

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How Fast is Too Fast?

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