Episode 57: According To Plan

according to plan

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  • Our opposing weekend activities.
  • Vacations vs. Trips.
  • Justin’s belief in spending a little extra money to make experiences more memorable.
  • Joy’s new found love for essential oils and appearance on the Brown Girls Rising podcast.
  • The best yearbook quote of 2017.
  • Blavity Episode 4: Friendship.
  • Navigating a friendship breakup.
  • And much more!

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